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The Interviews: J Science, Music Producer

The man behind our campaign track talks to us about the suit as an equaliser and being the lord of your own manor.

 

Whatever we do for work, we all need to get our heads in the right place, make the right impression and get on with the job at hand. From the business world to the arts and even for life online, what we wear and the small acts we do have the power to transform how we take on our days.

Over the next few weeks, we’re sitting down with three men from different professions to discuss the power of the suit and the things we can achieve when we’re feeling our best.

First up in The Interviews, we meet music producer J Science.

 

 

Let’s start with the track you wrote and produced for our new campaign, ‘the power of the suit’. Tell us what’s behind the lyrics?

When I saw the visuals, it was all about the manor thing – you know, the dual meaning of ‘manor’ and that typical, quintessential kind of London gent. But that can be anything – there’s a line in there that says  ‘from tower block to penthouse’. The idea is if you’ve got a suit on, it doesn’t matter where you come from, who you are, what your background is, what you do, everyone is equal and, you know, that empowers you.

 

How do you feel when you put on a suit?

I love it. I mean, I’m into clothes anyway. I end up wearing a suit a lot. Strangely, when I was a child I kind of said that I would never work in an office or wear a suit… I’ve failed miserably on both of those at many stages in my life. But no, it feels good. It’s a good feeling to be smart. It sharpens you up and you feel a difference.

You know, if you go back to when they used to put a suit of armour on they must have felt powerful, so it’s kind of like modern day suit of armour. You get up in the morning, scrape your hair back, and once that suit’s on and you’re out of the front door that’s it, you feel ready to go and take the world on, which is what I try and do every day.

 

 

Are there any particular situations you wear a suit for?

It’s the times that I need to make an impression or need to put myself over as something in particular. There are connotations of a suit that people recognise – professional, successful, you know, there are things that you emit when you’re wearing a suit.

I think in those situations where that’s the message that you want to put across, you know, I am successful, I am professional, I can do what you want me to do. I think a suit instantly puts that message over so in those situations where I want to do that, that’s where a suit will definitely come out my wardrobe.

 

What does being able to express yourself musically mean to you?

When it comes to music it’s an amazing thing for me, a very personal thing for expression, whether that’s an expression of how I feel or how I want to make people feel. I believe music is almost magical, it’s such an amazing thing for that emotional content and what it can do to people.

You know, like if you’re feeling sad, it can make you feel happy. It can do so much, so I’m blessed to be fortunate enough to do that with music, even if it is just a simple chord or something that evokes an emotion and then actually seeing that translate, seeing people then receive that and seeing how it affects them. I believe it is a miracle because it’s free, you know, what would the world be like without music, and yet we have it for free so yeah I find it very empowering and a very good thing.

 

 

Are there any rituals you have to get yourself in the right frame of mind before you do a set, or perhaps before you start writing a new track?

I’m a bit of a control freak in a lot of ways anyway so I like kind of routine things to be right. I’m quite diligent. I think if things are worth doing then you do them well, so I just make sure everything is the best that it can be in whatever I am doing. It doesn’t matter what I am preparing for– if I am going to the studio or if I’ve got a gig or anything at all – I want to know that when I go out there it’s the best that I can do.

 

Is there anything you do when you do get writer’s block?

That’s a tricky one actually, kind of no, it’s a really odd thing because you can work with it and then it becomes a very different thing. You can make music, you can still make things that fit. You end up making random music, which I’m not a fan of, you know, you look at the world it’s kind of full of it. If you look at adverts, people write music to fill the gaps, it’s not really what I would do because I think it needs to hold a lot more.

So what do I do in times like that? I kind of take a breather, go out and soak up some air, some sunshine, you know, even if it’s raining go by a window – anything that lets you reflect and think about things then go back down with fresh ears and try again, again and again. It’s that persistence overcoming resistance kind of thing.

 

 

When did you last feel most powerful?

I don’t want to sound cliché, but every morning when I wake up, you know, I just feel powerful and blessed I guess for being alive and being grateful for what I’ve got. Simple things, humble things. More for the opportunities that I have and have had and yeah just being able to do it again and being in the situation where I can realise my dreams to some extent.

I am very fortunate to be able to do what I love every day. A lot of people don’t have that, so just the simple fact that I have that is enough to feel powerful.

 

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How the suit got its power

Suits are the ultimate power trip – this is why.

A TRIP DOWN TAILORING’S MEMORY LANE

As the flagship of menswear, the suit is the obvious choice when you want to impress, whether you’re marrying the love of your life, trying to get ahead at work or having a big night out.

Of course, we would say that, but there’s little else that has such a positive impact on how you look and feel. Find the right one and your confidence will be sky-high. You’ll look sharp and feel like a king. Wearing one has become almost like a ritual – put on your suit and you’re ready to take on whatever the day throws at you.

That’s a special kind of power few other clothes can claim. Let’s power through the ages to find out how we got here.

THANK YOU, BEAU BRUMMELL

Before this guy came on the scene, menswear was all about tails, silk stockings and knee breeches. After growing tired of look, the original dandy Brummell turned fashion on its head with full-length trousers and a more pared-back suit, and in the process became one of the first to reach celebrity status simply for the way he dressed.

HIGH WAISTS AND HEAVY FABRIC

The turn of the twentieth century saw a simpler take on the suit, much like the ones we wear today. After the end of the straight-laced Victorian era, the frock coat became the lounge coat as menswear started to relax a bit more.

We say ‘relax’ but it was still a long way off from the comfort of tailoring today – the trousers were high waisted, jackets were buttoned high up and the fabric was thick and heavy; think Peaky Blinders. Wearing a lounge suit was more of a working class look, and it gave the lower classes a sense of power as well. Style came into it too with people being more adventurous, contrasting their waistcoat to their jacket and trousers, for example.

TIME FOR REVELRY

You’ve got the 1920s to thank for your dressed-up party look. After the war, people embraced having freedom and fun again and so more flamboyant outfits came in. Just watch The Great Gatsby with Robert Redford and his very early adoption of a pink suit and you’ll see what we mean. Men shook off the seriousness of war with their bright suits and bow ties, ready to throw caution to the wind and enjoy a good time. The dress suits you wear to black tie bashes now often still have a bit of the jazz age about them.

SILVER SCREEN STYLE

The 1930s saw Hollywood come into play, which meant that men had icons to follow. Fashion became more about showing off your frame so well-cut silhouettes came to the forefront. By the end of the decade, suit jackets had nipped in waists, broad shoulders and tapered legs.

Jump ahead 10 years, and materials were minimal during the WWII. It meant that suits became much simpler in design, but by the 1950s, materials were back in full swing and more textures found their way into tailors’ toolkits. And as more people could watch TV, popular culture became a thing and, therefore, so did fashion. Bold film star styles became mainstream, with men keen to emulate the sophisticated suits they saw on the silver screen.

A SYMBOL OF POWER IS BORN

We all know the 60s as a period of rebellion, and it’s thanks to this bohemian movement that suits rose in the power stakes. Why? Because if you did have to wear a suit, it meant you had a professional line of work – and quite often a very powerful one at that.

WHERE WE’RE AT NOW

After things got a little out there in the 70s with patterns and flair, the shoulder pads and boxy silhouettes of the 80s and 90s cemented the suit’s position of power. Today, we’ve reached a happy medium where it’s fair to say that current suiting is very much influenced by tradition but with sharp, contemporary fits and more scope for personal expression through colour and pattern.

But many men still only pull on the confidence-boosting power of a suit for special or important occasions. We say, why not feel that great every day? Got a job to go to? Dinner with your in-laws? A small chance you might bump into your ex? Nothing’s going to send your self-esteem rocketing like a great suit can.

Now that’s the kind of power trip we can get behind.

Feel the power of the suit

 

A great suit says you’re somebody, not just anybody.

 

Wearing a suit is transformative. Not just physically, giving you broader shoulders and a leaner frame, but mentally too. It makes you feel empowered, important and ready to take on anything. In fact, we did the research and over a third of British men feel most professional and powerful in a tailored suit.

What’s more, 56% of the men we asked said wearing a suit helps to positively influence the way they are perceived by society. In other words, great tailoring has the power to change how a man sees the world – and how the world sees him. Confident, capable, in control. In the right suit, there’s no limit to what you can achieve.

Prepare to reach new heights.

 

FEEL THE POWER OF THE SUIT

 

How to choose a wedding suit to match your wedding venue

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Whether you’re marrying in a rustic barn or a grand classical ballroom, your wedding suit should complement your surroundings so the marriage of these two styles is pretty key.

 

Written by Emma Hla, Coco Wedding Venues

 

There are usually twitchy knees a-plenty during the festive season, so if you’re one of the ones that got engaged over Christmas and New Year then congratulations! How ruddy exciting!

Whilst I always advise taking a little time to enjoy the just-engaged bubble, it’s also very tempting to start the wedding planning ASAP – especially the venue search as locations can book up one to two years in advance… gulp.

But, once you’ve found the dream spot to marry, then it’s time to turn your attention to the fashion. For the bride, the wedding venue and the wedding dress go hand-in-hand and I don’t see why it should be any different for the groom!

To help guide you through this style dilemma I’ve selected eight of my most-loved venues and matched them with the perfect suit. Pretty handy right?

 

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Venue: Streamcombe Farm; Photo: Freckle Photography

THE BOHO ONE

Streamcombe Farm is a magical venue completely ‘off the beaten track’ and unspoiled by modern farming. The meadows are wild and very natural, the streams are crystal clear, and with no near neighbours, you often hear no noise other than the stream and the buzzards calling.

Beautifully wild, it’s the perfect location for an outdoor boho celebration and what could be better than a bit of tweed to reflect this outdoor vibe. For me, boho always airs on the side of being a little bit dark and moody, so I’ve opted for this tweed-style jacket and waistcoat in grey.

Tweed is a key trend for groomswear that shows no signs of slowing down; for the modern goom it offers a more relaxed feel. To ramp up the bohemian look pair with floral shirts and contrasting patterns such as another check. Cut in a smart, tailored fit (so it’s not like your Granddad’s boxy tweeds!), you can buy the coordinating chinos from Moss Bros.

 

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Venue: Stratton Court Barn

THE RUSTIC ONE

I’m crushing on this lounge suit – a contemporary option that looks rather at home in rustic locations thanks to its soft, faded blue hue. Brown leather shoes match really well and I love the geometric detailing on the lining. Cut in a fashionable slim fit, the package includes the full look (slim-fit shirt, tie or cravat and a pocket square). So now we have the look we need a rustic venue, but which one?

Meet Stratton Court Barn – it’s found at Pool Farm, set amidst rolling Oxfordshire countryside, yet only 10 minutes from Bicester. Once you enter the venue by the gorgeous tree-lined drive, the peace and quiet of the countryside will surround you and provide a gorgeous backdrop for your celebrations.

Originally built in 1870, and thoughtfully refurbished, the barn has kept its rustic charm, making it the perfect setting for wonderfully intimate, relaxed and happy celebrations.

 

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Venue: St Giles House; Photo: Taylor and Porter

THE LUXE ONE

Nothing says luxe more than a deep, sexy burgundy and this limited edition, fashion-forward lounge suit is my pick for a wedding at St Giles House.

At this fine-art county house located in Dorset you can marry surrounded by fireplaces and old master paintings or in their intimate and romantic grotto. This delicate Shell Grotto forms part of the ‘Pleasure Grounds’ built in the early 18th Century using shells brought back from the Caribbean. It’s perfect for couples looking to wed in a unique and magical setting.

The Moss Fuchsia Berry Lounge Suit is a bold, richly hued fabric and has depth and surface interest for a luxe finish. A truly standout look for the groom, it’s a wedding suit that’s cut in a fashionable slim fit. Pair with tonal damask accessories with a metallic edge and you’ll fit right into this location.

 

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Venue: Chateau de Redon; Photo: Ryan Flynn

THE DESTINATION ONE

Chateau de Redon is a romantic French venue in a unique, relaxed and natural landscape. Set in a 2-hectare private park with rare, century-old trees it offers a perfectly secluded and exclusive location for your wedding. The Chateau has been completely renovated in 2013 with a taste for modern design and respect for all the authentic elements: century-old oak wooden floors, chimneys with majestic mirrors, fine handcrafted mouldings and woodwork.

To complement such a location the high fashion Moss London Blue Tuxedo is a luxurious option. Cut in Moss London’s fashionable skinny fit, there’s still a nod to the venue’s history with its formal eveningwear vibe. The full hire package includes the cumberland and bow tie so you can relax knowing you’re faultlessly turned-out for such a flawless venue.

 

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Venue: London Rowing Club; Photo: Anne Shwarz

THE VINTAGE ONE

The London Rowing Club is a new addition to our collection of venues so what better than to pair it with a new suit for 2018! This limited edition, sharp, skinny fit wedding suit comes in a perfect vintage-inspired iced pastel shade which is super on-trend for this new year.

The Light Blue Suit has a ‘preppy’ appeal in-line with the venue’s rowing-themed décor. The London Rowing Club is the oldest club on the Thames embankment, established in 1856, so the club’s interior is full of memorabilia, including pictures of the club over the years, awards, oars and even a boat on the roof!

 

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Venue: AREA

THE CITY ONE

AREA is a wonderful blank canvas venue and the perfect space for a vibrant city wedding. Located in London’s creative capital, Shoreditch, this is one of the most fashionable hangouts where innovative bars, restaurants, shops and clubs pop up every day alongside traditional east-end trades. AREA is all distressed wooden floorboards, exposed brickwork, a high vaulted ceiling and original Victorian windows, all of which give this space the wow factor.

So, if you want all eyes on you in a space like this then we think you need a wedding suit which also has the wow factor! Step in the Moss London Blue Suit in this fearlessly bold shade of blue. It’s cut in a sharp, slim fit suit with fashionable notch lapels that add to its ‘special occasion’ feel.

 

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Venue: The Gallivant

THE COASTAL ONE

French Connection has got you covered should you choose a seaside wedding. This Sky Blue Lounge Suit hue nods to the ocean but it also just so happens to be a huge trend for groomswear.

French Connection suits are cut slim around the shoulders and waist for a flattering, modern fit and the wool-blend gives it a nice handle (the name for how the suit fabric feels) but still comfortable and cool enough to wear all day – especially important if you hit the jackpot and have a glorious summer’s day wedding! This particular style is also available in Junior sizes so your little guys can match the older guys.

So, which venue? Well, The Gallivant is a pretty epic venue on the raw coastline of Camber Sands in East Sussex. Weddings at The Gallivant always take place on an exclusive basis, meaning guests can enjoy the entire hotel and its 20 individually-styled bedrooms for themselves.

In the warmer months, guests enjoy weddings naturally flowing between the beach and the coastal styled marquee. In the cooler months, the open log fire in the New England Room and the heated marquee creates a beautiful Scandinavian/Hamptons themed environment.

 

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Venue: Kew Gardens; Photo: Ali Paul

THE CLASSIC ONE

I’ve saved my favourite venue for last – the incredible Royal Botanic Gardens in Kew, London. With floor-to-ceiling windows on three sides, the Nash Conservatory provides an abundance of natural daylight for your wedding celebrations. The Conservatory is the oldest of the 19th Century glasshouses at Kew and is of major historical and architectural importance making it a unique venue for your event. The style of this venue is super versatile but I think it’s the perfect backdrop for a classically elegant wedding.

Classic doesn’t necessarily mean traditional, and while tails would certainly suit this space, I urge you to opt for a dinner suit instead. There’s something very dashing about a man in this particular attire and, believe me, your bride or groom will go a little weak at the knees when they see you in one.

 

Emma Hla is founder of Coco Wedding Venues – a curated collection of wedding venues and big day inspiration for style-focused couples. Browse her directory of beautiful and unique venues by style or location and find more wedding inspiration on Instagram and Facebook.

How a wedding planner can make your life easier

Your engagement should be exciting and fun but planning your wedding can become overwhelming and stressful. Some people love the idea of doing it all themselves but if you have no experience in events, have a young family or have a busy career then a wedding planner might be just what you need.

 

Written by Natalie Hewitt Weddings

Newly engaged or just about to pop the question? Then huge congratulations are in order! But maybe the prospect of actually planning your wedding doesn’t sound as appealing. My husband’s response to our wedding planning was “whatever you want”, “how much does it cost” and “let’s add more booze!”. Does that sound familiar?

If you think about it, your wedding day will most probably be the biggest and most expensive party you will ever host. But this party isn’t a straightforward dinner party, oh no! This is a party stretching over a full day that may have multiple locations, potentially hundreds of guests, a tight schedule and a long list of suppliers to orchestrate. That’s a lot going on!

For many, hiring a professional is an easy decision to make but you might still be unsure whether it’s right for you or not. So, to keep it short and sweet, here are three ways a wedding planner can make your life easier.

 

 

TIME

Hiring a professional planner is a little bit like having a bridal personal assistant on hand throughout your engagement. Reading contracts, completing booking forms, chasing guests that haven’t RSVP’d, creating schedules and then assisting with the set-up and clear-down; a planner can carry out a vast array of tasks that are a little tedious, a tad boring and incredibly time-consuming. The result? You to catch up on Netfilx rather than spending your evenings doing ‘wedmin’.

 

 

STRESS

Pulling off a perfectly planned and beautifully styled wedding can be quite stressful, especially if you haven’t got any experience of planning. Creating a picture of your wedding day isn’t as straightforward as deciding what you want and booking it; there are so many details, logistics and timings to consider.

Your planner will have experience of the industry and will know what will and won’t work, be able to problem-solve, know what to book and when to book it and know to cross check everything to ensure nothing is missed. In addition to a stress-free engagement, they’ll also take responsibility for coordinating the whole day itself, meaning you can relax and fully enjoy the day, without having to sort out anything that may crop up.

 

 

MONEY

For those who just see the big picture and think it’s daft to spend money on a planner when that could be spent elsewhere you should definitely keep reading…

I didn’t have a wedding planner when I got married. I plucked a figure out of my head when I started planning but not knowing what a wedding was going to cost, I ended up doubling it. If I had spent a little on a planner I could have saved thousands by having them manage my spending. Now, as a wedding planner, I always start the process by talking about your budget; you can’t spend what you haven’t got, and I strongly advise my clients to plan their finances first before we commit to anything.

Next – discounts! A lot of suppliers offer my clients discounts for booking through me, which they wouldn’t be able to get going direct. I am a member of the UK Alliance of Wedding Planners too and we don’t believe in taking a commission. I only recommend suppliers because they are awesome, not because I am getting a cash incentive to put them forward, so that cash incentive goes straight to you.

We also have an extensive recommended supplier list so can put forward an incredible range of suppliers at different price points; a far better selection than you’ll get from carrying out an internet search for going to a wedding fair – which let’s face it, you probably can’t be bothered to be dragged around on your day off.

 

 

SOME FINAL TIPS

If you’re considering a planner for your wedding, I have a few pieces of wisdom to pass on. Firstly, do your research on wedding planners before you book one. Request testimonials, have a look at their portfolios and even meet them. You are going to work closely with this person for the duration of your engagement, so you need to not only trust them, but you need to also like them.

And finally, in the UK, wedding planners aren’t audited, so please make sure you book an experienced one. Visit the UK Alliance of Wedding Planners website for a directory of professional companies who have been pre-vetted and selected as members. It’s a great way to find talented, reliable and awesome planners to create your dream wedding day.

 

Natalie Hewitt creates beautifully styled and perfectly planned weddings. From the intimate to the extravagant, she works with clients across the UK to ensure that their big day is an unforgettable one. Find out more about Natalie and her work at Nataliehewitt.co.uk or follow her on Instagram and Facebook.

10 things to tell your wedding venue

Help them help you.

Low Hall The Lakes | Image by Jono Symonds Photography

 

WHAT YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR WEDDING VENUE BEFORE YOUR BIG DAY

BY COCO’S WEDDING VENUES

Words: E. Hla

Communication with your venue is absolutely key to making sure your wedding day goes smoothly for you and your guests, but what should you bring to the party?

10 THINGS TO TELL YOUR WEDDING VENUE

There are lots of things to think about when you’re planning your wedding. You’ll find plenty of guides out there telling you how to find the perfect wedding venue and what to ask when visiting your shortlist. But, once you’ve picked the one what should you be telling your venue ahead of your big day? An experienced wedding planner or coordinator will usually ask these questions during the planning process, but it’s always worth making sure you’re all on the same page ahead of the wedding. And if you’re doing things yourself, communicating clearly with suppliers and delegating jobs could save you a lot of stress later down the line.

Here are ten things that’ll help them help you get wed without a hitch:

 

Middleton Lodge | Image by Gasp Photo

1. Guest numbers

Your guest list is integral to the feel and indeed the flow of your day. So whether you want an intimate ceremony for family and close friends or a gathering of 200 for a full day of celebrations, make sure your wedding venue is aware of your planned numbers for each part of your day. If your venue also offers guest accommodation, then make sure to factor this into your plans and get it secured early for your nearest and dearest.

2. Little people

If your guest list includes children, it’s always a good idea to inform your venue. They may have certain restrictions or information for you to pass on to your guests. Knowing this information sooner rather than later will help when creating seating plans including high chairs, or additional access your little guests may need. Also, some wedding venues may be able to put you in touch with local crèche management companies and children’s entertainers.

3. Furry friends

You’ll find some wedding venues (those without livestock in surrounding fields) are now welcoming the idea of couples incorporating their pets into the proceedings. However, rather than just rocking up with the pup in tow, it’s always a good idea to discuss the possibility of having your pets present on your wedding day and if your venue has pet-friendly rooms to accommodate your furry friends.

 

The Walled Garden at Cowdray | Image by This & That Photography

RSA House | Image by Rachel Takes Pictures

 

4. Supplier details and logistics

Make sure you send your wedding venue a full list of your suppliers, who they can expect when, who will be on site setting up and whether there will be items being delivered on the day. Include their business name, contact details, what they’ll be supplying and the time they’d like access.

The venue can then get in touch with them directly to discuss logistics and any formal paperwork that may need completing by your chosen suppliers (such as including PAT testing certificates and liability insurance). Some suppliers may wish to visit the venue ahead of time, this way they can simply arrange it with them directly.

5. The wedding party

To take the pressure off, ask a few members of your wedding party to liaise with the venue and suppliers on the day. The last thing you want to be doing on your wedding day is chasing suppliers or worrying about whether your carefully made plans will go off without a hitch. Make sure your venue has telephone numbers for your key players – this could be parents, groomsmen or bridesmaids. Doing this will leave you and your partner to relax and enjoy the day.

6. Arrival times after ceremony

If you’re having your ceremony at a nearby church or town hall, then make sure that one of your tasks for the aforementioned wedding party is to call the venue when you’ve left your ceremony. A glass of chilled champers waiting for you on arrival at your reception venue will kick the festivities off nicely.

 

Boutique Marquees | Image by Christina Sarah Photography

Browning Bros. | Image by Jess Soper Photography

 

7. Running order

At most venues, the wedding coordinator and/or caterers will make sure the day runs to plan and, most importantly, runs to time. But always remember, the day is yours so if there are certain things you want to include or not include, then make sur your venue has a copy of your running order for the day.

8. Evening guests

If you are having evening guests join the party then inform the venue of how many guests are arriving and at what time. This way, the venue can ensure your guests are greeted and welcomed. This is especially important if your wedding breakfast is overrunning slightly – guests who are well fed and watered won’t mind waiting for the happy couple to make their grand entrance.

9. Guests with special requirements

Whether it’s guests with dietary requirements, elderly relatives wanting a chill-out room or disabled access needed; discuss these requests with your venue in advance so arrangements can be made. A great tip is to include this on your RSVPs when you send out your wedding invitations.

10. The morning after

You may not be the only one with a post-wedding hangover – your venue might also be in need of some TLC the morning after the night before. If you have suppliers visiting the venue the day after the wedding to assist with clear-down or to pick up supplies, then inform the venue. Most venues will have a specific time that the venue must be ‘returned’, so make sure you’ve considered this in your running order and plans.

 

WHAT MAKES A GOOD WEDDING VENUE?

The answer to what makes a good wedding venue is it really is completely personal. Some couples like a more hands-on approach, some will simply hire a blank canvas space and do it all themselves – either way, most wedding locations will work with you to make sure that your day is unique and just as you want it. Building relationships with your wedding venue and suppliers will always help things go well. Keep communication free-flowing so everyone knows your event inside-out – and your day will run as smoothly as possible!

 

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